Don’t Drink The Kool-Aid – If someone offers you a sip of their drink, don’t take it.Where are your Flip Flops? – Many gay saunas will not allow you to go barefoot, and even if they do, why would you want to? Shoes are generally clunky – and a tad unsexy! Plus, are you prepared to get them wet? Beach flip flops are perfect for keeping your feet off the sometimes less-than-hygienic floors and are easy to get off in the heat of the moment.In some countries, it’s also better to take as little valuables as possible with you. If nothing else, you might want to buy a drink from the bar or vending machine after a work-out. Cash Is King – Most gay saunas are cash only, which many customers prefer to protect their privacy.You can leave the door open if you want others to join, and a simple head nod or shake can let guys know to join in or stay out. If that creeps you out, find a private stall, room, or area. Watching – If you start getting hot and heavy in public, etiquette dictates everyone can watch.Since it is hard to tell, be extra careful and maybe avoid until you are more comfortable. Sadly, many guys head here for barebacking and to avoid using a condom. The look won’t work here, and touching is the only way to communicate. There’ll generally be an orgy of men in there, sucking, groping, and perhaps fucking. Dark Rooms – In case you want some truly anonymous sex, this is exactly where you head to.An ass squeeze suggests he desires just that.
If he grabs your cock, he is searching for a top. The trick? Guys will grab the part they are interested in most.
Aside from the positioning of the keys, or wrist bracelets in some gay sauna, it is hard to tell sometimes.